Kindness does not cost anything and it has incredible effects on a community. The horse world is very small – everyone knows everyone, therefore, it is exponentially more important to spread positive energy.
Horse shows can be stressful and often exhausting. Sometimes it is hard to put your best foot forward every second of every day. Even though it is not always an easy task, generating an atmosphere filled with kindness allows for more people to join the broader equestrian community.
Following these five simple, kind acts will enhance your horse show experience as well as that of those around you.
Do not brag
No one likes to be around someone who always brags about their horse, accomplishments, etc. Be proud of your achievements, but do not boast to others. Bragging creates jealousy and resentment. Those feelings are not conducive to a favorable environment for both horse and rider. Arrogance is not attractive on anyone. There is always someone who can jump higher, run faster, ride better, etc. Learn to accept that and channel your energy into preparation. Keep in mind that arrogance and confidence are not the same. Be confident in your abilities, but do not project pride. Humility is an essential aspect of horse showing. Be humble and kind to everyone, whether they’re a Congress Champion or a rookie just starting out.
Start a conversation
You cannot go wrong with just saying “Hi” or “Good Morning” to a fellow equestrian. Whether you know the person or not, a simple, kind gesture goes a long way. Remember that we all have a similar passion, so there is always something to talk about. Try not to excessively talk about yourself, instead, ask the other person questions about them. Also, most people are shy and afraid to start a conversation. Take the initiative to walk up to someone or say “Hello.” Even if the person is someone that you do not particularly like, say a simple greeting. This friendly gesture is an example that others should follow.
Be polite
Politeness is the key to kindness. Be consciences of the horse show edict and execute your behavior accordingly. For example; do not cut someone off in the warmup pen or make a cruel comment about their ride. If you feel the need to be rude, only walk away or don’t speak. I think this goes without saying, but do not undermine the importance of saying “Please,” “Sorry,” and “Thank you.” These short words are often overlooked but create an astonishing difference within a community. Recognize all the incredible opportunities that you are given and demonstrate kindness to all.
Offer help when needed
Another crucial aspect of kindness is a willingness to help when needed. If someone dropped their water bottle or needs help mounting their horse, then take the time to lend a hand. Helpfulness is another kind attribute that does not cost anything. If you have free time, offer your trainer help. Whether it be sweeping the aisle or longing a horse, there is always work to be done. If it so happens that your trainer does not need help, ask the show office what you can do to assist. Organizing and executing a horse show takes the dedication of many people. No matter how small or monumental your actions are, every little bit generates a more favorable environment.
Create a welcoming atmosphere
Offering help, being polite, starting conversations, and staying humble are all aspects of creating a welcoming horse show atmosphere. Each piece is as important as the next and should not be overlooked. For the equine industry to evolve and grow, there must be a strong foundation of a welcoming environment. The only way to progress is through change. Something as minute as saying “Hello” or “Thank you” can have an astronomical impact in the long run.
Princess Diana once said, “Carry out a random act of kindness, with no expectation of reward, safe in the knowledge that one day, someone might do the same for you.”
Treat others with kindness and create more positivity in the cycle. Remember that acting kindly does not cost anything and generates a chain reaction within the community.
About the Author – Cat Guenther is in a junior at the Academy of the Sacred Heart. She has ridden horses since she was 8 years old. When Cat is not at the barn, she focuses on her small businesses “Behind the Bit Tack Sales” and “Tack to Dye for”. Cat is also a representative for Haala jeans and recommends them to every equestrian! She hopes to one-day attend Michigan State University and study to become an equine veterinarian. Cat is extremely excited to compete in the rookie and novice youth all around events this year with her new equine partner, Royal Invite.
