We’ve all seen them. They are the ones who know a horse in the distance and immediately know it’s different. These trainers are the ones who communicate effortlessly, almost telepathically and execute flawless maneuvers.
They have never-ending patience and always make thoughtful decisions. They are the ones who see a spark in a foal’s eye and know there is something special inside. They are horsemen.
True horsemen seem to rise above the rest of us with their keen sense of intuition, humility and ability to transcend what the human eye can see.
We can learn so many valuable lessons from these types of equestrians and apply them in our routines, habits and even personal lives. We put together a list of seven things that real riders do differently.
Put the horse first
A true horseman loves and respects the horse above all things. They put the needs and well-being of the horse first and tailor a program to match the horse’s abilities and talents. These riders are creative in their training methods, and they are deliberate in inspiring their horse to be better. They expect excellence but not perfection, and never weaken a horse’s spirit or personality. They have straightforward, honest and tough conversations with owners and riders about a horse’s ability or physical health. Most importantly, they never compromise a horse’s dignity for success.
Understand the horse
They don’t just observe or listen to the horse; they feel the horse. True horsemen can feel if a horse is nervous or tense as soon as they throw a leg over it. These riders can also feel if a horse is dropping their shoulder or not driving from behind. Successful trainers know when to push harder or soften their approach. They think like a horse and know how to respond in a way that a horse will understand.
Look at a horse and can see things that others can’t
They notice a wrinkle in the muzzle or the way a tail is swishing and immediately know a horse is not feeling its best. These equestrians can also see a brand new foal jogging in the field and know it can be something great. A true horseman looks beyond the exterior of the horse and can see what is inside. Real riders look at each horse as an individual and tailor their approach to the horse’s capability and learning style. It is almost if they become part of the horse themselves.
Embellish the positives and let go of the negatives
A true horseman focuses on the things they can control and less on the things they can’t. They enhance the natural talent in a horse and channel in a positive manner so the horse can perform to the highest level of its ability. Talented trainers do not dwell on or overthink negative attributes, but create pathways for the horse to overcome obstacles. Notable equestrians set a horse up to be successful.
Have impeccable timing
Feel, and timing is essential to creating trust in training. They are consistent with their cues, rewards and punishments and time them correctly. Successful trainers are very sensitive to what they are doing and when they are doing it. They make sound decisions when training and never let their ego or own pride get in the way of progress.
Have limits
A true horseman has a special connection with their horses that you can almost see. They understand the horse’s mental and physical ability and know how much a horse can handle. These trainers know their horse’s limits, and they know when to stop pushing. They have empathy for their partner and never use force or over-train. They respect the horse as a highly trained, competitive athlete and understand that even the horses with the most heart and try, may reach a breaking point.
Seek guidance from others
True horsemen are never too proud to ask for help. They acknowledge their weaknesses and draw guidance from fellow equestrians. They look internally at themselves to see what they can improve on and make changes in their abilities to be better. These riders are always learning and are hungry to be better partners with their horse.
True horsemen seem better because they are better
These riders are better at listening and feeling what their horse is telling them. They do everything with a purpose and treat every interaction with their horse as a teachable one. They don’t just train horses; they develop them into highly accomplished, beautiful beings who want to work hard for them. True horsemen do all things for the love of the horse.
About the Author – Julie Hoefling was born and raised in Akron, Michigan but now resides in Cave Creek, Arizona with her husband, Jerry. She works at Kahala Brands as a Director of Marketing. Julie shows her horse, Shady Impulse in the Novice Amateur Western All-Around events under the guidance of Ryan and Andrea Kail.
