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Shirley Phillips Suffers Heartbreak and Healing Through Horses

Select Amateur Shirley Phillips of Ada, Oklahoma has endured heartbreaking losses throughout her lifetime, but over the years, her 12 year-old home-bred gelding, Im Zippos Image (Rio) has been there every step of the way. Before turning 50 years old, Phillips suffered two heart attacks and soon after, she experienced the loss of her 38 year-old son due to sudden cardiac death in December of 2006. Rio never left her side.

“Losing my son took the life out of me. His loss was intensified by the loss of my four year-old daughter on December 13th–32 years earlier,” says, Phillips.  “For the next several years I had no interest in competition. I felt I was walking through the days with no direction or purpose. Some days I went to Rio’s stall he would be laying down; other days I would lay my head on him and sob until I was too exhausted to cry anymore. Rio never moved. He understood I was in tremendous pain. He understood I needed him to lean on.”

The year before her son’s death in December of 2006, Phillips won the 2005 Regional Championship in Select Showmanship with Rio, which she trained herself. The following August, Shirley competed at her first AQHA World Championship Show under the supervision of a young Craig Vicars. She placed eighth in Select Amateur Showmanship and remembers the day well.

“The day of the world show was a little bumpy. I locked my keys in my van with my show clothing in it!” Philips recalls. “The rain came and stayed. By the time we walked into the arena we had been through a rough day. We stood in the alley way waiting our turn. I talked to Rio the entire time, not sure if I was soothing him or myself. At the cone, I continued talking. When the nod came, I was completely absorbed in our every maneuver. When I set him up for inspection for a split second I was completely lost. I have no memory of the ring stewart walking around us, but we were fortunate enough to place eighth at our first world show!”

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Float=”left”]/Media/3/jpg/2013/4/6b2f549f-155d-40de-aa35e5faa2d689e6.jpg[/NPI]Over the next six years after her son’s death and world show Top 10 placing, she never set foot in a show arena. Her trainer, Vicars would always ask, “‘When are you coming back?’ “He never gave up on me,” remembers, Phillips whose beloved daughter, Ashlee, also showed with Vicars. “In the summer of 2012, my husband and I needed a get away and looked for lake property everywhere–only to finally admit we had no desire to spend our spare time at any lake. My husband was the first one to say, ‘I want to spend our weekends watching you show’. Him speaking those words was the push I needed to see if Craig had a place for me in his barn.”
Shirley’s trainer, Craig Vicars had recently married the beautiful and talented Whitney Walquist where he was the assistant trainer at Walquist Quarter horses.
“Craig didn’t hesitate making a place for me and Rio,” says Phillips. “He meets me every day with a smile on his face. He is slow to anger, quick to forgive and is the finest young man I know. He’s my trainer, my coach, but more importantly my friend. He’s been there through it all. He’s seen me at my best and my worst but he is unwavering in his opinion, ‘You can do it!’ He has very high hopes for us at the Select World Show this year in the showmanship. Being his first customer, I also want to be his first success.”

Phillips
continues, “I am very grateful AQHA made a place for those of us over
50 who love the sport. Being with my horse takes me away, it allows me
freedom from the very heavy burden of grief. When I am with Rio–he is
what I think about. I need him far more than he will ever need me. I
believe he knows that. When we are together practicing or stepping up to
the cone to compete, it is him that fills my mind. He knows his job, he
knows this is what he was born to do. I am proud to be his partner.”

The Select Amateur’s future plan is to add an under saddle class to Rio’s repertoire. “I imagine our biggest challenge is that both Rio and I are aging–with that comes challenges and changes. Aging however does not diminish the desire to be a winner,” Phillips states. “That’s my ultimate goal…to be a winner.”

Click here to see her ad in the April issue of GoMag
Photos © Larry Williams, Emajes Design
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